Yesterday, when I composed the contents of my dream into words, I sent the blog to friends for feedback. Feedback is such a great thing to open yourself to. I am so grateful to have friends who I can turn to for it. Thank you, my lovely friends. I’m sharing your beauty and wisdom.
Here’s some of the valuable beauty I got back:
️ I have been in a few controlling relationships when I was in my 20’s. I felt I needed to be loyal while I was slowly dying inside and didn’t realize it. I was a shell
of myself and totally dependent.
Yes a relationship takes two but when you loose your sense of self, it’s unhealthy. I don’t really know how to advise you other than you HAVE TO take care yourself to be able to love someone. He needs to allow you to have a sense of self and you need to know that too.
That was great therapy. Something writing is the medicine we need to see and understand.